In order to be inside your circle, a person should consistently have your basic trust levels.
If they’re dipping below, that’s a code amber, possibly red alert.
By having a reasonable level of self-esteem and a basic level of trust in you and others (let’s call it 70% trust for them), it means that you increase trust based on evidence and consistent experience of it over time and you decrease in recognition of when there is a boundary bust / clash in values – The Debit and Credit Trust System.
I was thinking about The Circle of Trust this morning and I realised that we can learn a hell of a lot about ourselves by working out our own.
You should be at the centre (or center for Americans) and the only people who should be in your Circle of Trust are people whom you .